Whenever I start writing first thought is always women and I always have plenty of things to be discussed on women’s challenges, this is an amazing creation of God. When she is a bachelor is expected to be an obedient daughter making all the sacrifices of her willingness, she also wants to fly but she can’t. She also wants to play like boys, eat like boys enjoy her life like boys but “Society” a big word with the bad thought that never allows a woman to be free and unfortunately this is the creation of woman herself. We teach every single thing to the daughter simultaneously nothing to the son does it mean that the universe is running only because of women’s? if yes then we all should praise women, welcome them and their expectation with open arm, but no we women have given those rights of fulfilling self-expectation only to men because we are expected to sacrifice. Then the second phase starts when she gets married. Since boys are not taught all those things again it is the wife who needs to sacrifice and commits the same mistake after becoming the mother of the baby boy. It is like we have decided not to stop this bad chain and start a new one where we will not say that we are treating our girls like boys instead we should be saying we are treating our boys like the girl. Not sharing your thoughts, your likes, dislikes with anybody creates a tunnel of sorrow within you where there is no outlet {then the Newton} third law of motion work “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction”. After certain point and age when a woman needs attention when she realizes her identity and when she feels like living her life, needs somebody to care for her: everybody seems busy in their own work without knowing the fact that somebody who wasted her whole life now needs some attention, some caring little bit of love….
Together we can bring changes in our own life and remind ourselves on the famous statement “Why should boys have all the fun?”
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